Me and my bloody big mouth 
I mentioned to a few people @ church this morning that S & I have plans for the future and rather than being happy for us they're pressing for me to get married before we do anything. 
Why the hell should we?
Most of their reasoning was that it would be "right before God" - but that doesn't mean that a piece of paper required by the state makes our relationship right before the God we believe in.
Neither of us want to get married 9not yet anyway) - and if we did we don't want some big wedding in church with countless people we hardly know but "have" to be invited.
I know that I'd rather have some blessing out on the heath - in amongst the nature S & I love so much.
But why should we have to have a priest to do that? All we need is both of us and God.
adamantixx
people are always too eager to judge others,
they should be happy for you both and be thankful that love is still alive in this day and age.
make each other happy and bugger the rest!!! x